Talking to family and friends about chronic lymphocytic leukemia (CLL)
Sharing with others helps lighten the burden.
Some people, when first diagnosed with any type of cancer, worry about the reactions
of family members (especially children), friends, and work colleagues.
But it’s nearly always best to share the news of a diagnosis with those who are
a part of your life. There is no right way to initiate the conversation. But the
sooner you share the news, the sooner the dialogue starts. And that gives others
a chance to provide support.
Setting the tone with children.
Explaining a cancer diagnosis to children is never easy, as you may have to explain
much more than you would to adults.
However, children often overhear what adults are discussing and may imagine the
situation to be worse than it is. So explaining the situation to them may help alleviate
their anxieties. Once they know, they may be able to offer you comfort and support.
And understanding the situation will also help them.
And when you do break the news to children, be sure they know that cancer has not
changed your relationship.
Give your loved ones a chance to help.
If you’re not sharing your feelings with others, they may feel that you don’t want
their support. That’s why it’s important to let family and friends know what you’re
going through.
Sharing your diagnosis with family members and friends can help them stay in the
loop about your treatment plans. They’ll be better able to help when they know what
medications you’re taking, when you’re taking them, and how often you need to see
doctors. And in case of an emergency, it’s better if loved ones know how to get
in touch with your healthcare team.
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